Do You Get What You’re Thinking About?

Do you ever catch yourself daydreaming? Of course, you do. We all daydream from time to time. Sometimes, we daydream about the great or fun things we’re going to do. Sometimes, we’re just wasting time. Other times, our daydreams can be harmful, such as daydreaming about another person’s spouse or life or possessions being yours and then dreaming about whatever it takes to make that a reality. It’s what morphs into cancel culture, eventually. It’s what leads to gossip, slander, and even murder in the Bible.

What are you thinking about? Believe it or not, it matters. Now, if you’re thinking about hurtful and harmful things, you’d better change course really fast because sin starts in the mind. It begins with what you’re thinking about, then moves to words, and, finally, to our actions. So, today, I want to share with you the importance of thinking about what you’re thinking about.

What It Really Means

Now, in the Bible, there are at least a couple of famous, well-known passages that most people know. In the Old Testament, it would have to be the 23rd Psalm. In the New Testament, it’s one verse. Do you know what it is? (Think about what it is.) John 3:16. You see it at football games. You see it all over Wrestlemania. It’s everywhere. These are “classics” that most of us, including many who don’t follow Christ, know. But let’s really think about one for a few moments.

Let’s look at Psalm 23 and look at what it really means.

  • “The Lord is my shepherd; I shall not want.” This means I shall not have many desires because the greatest desire is God. If I’ve got Him, I’ve got everything else.
  • “He makes me lie down in green pastures.” Why do you think He makes us? Well, because we’re not likely to do so on our own. We’re just busy, busy, busy.
  • “He leads me beside still waters.” Because we don’t always know where to find them. And we don’t like anything that’s still; like, we want action.
  • “He restores my soul. He leads me in paths of righteousness.” Paths of righteousness, by the way, are the only way to restore the soul. We spend so much time in unrighteousness. Romans 1:18b says we suppress the truth by our wickedness and unrighteousness. So, leading us to righteous paths is the way to go.
  • He does all this “for His name’s sake.” In other words, for His glory, even (or maybe especially), “when I’m in the valley of the shadow of death,” because that’s the single most difficult, scary time that any of us will ever face.
  • “I will fear no evil.” Why not? Because “You are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me. You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies; you anoint my head with oil; my cup runs over. Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life, and I will dwell in the house of the Lord forever.”

Some of us repeat these verses so much, we forget what they’re really saying. And if it just becomes the endless reciting of formulaic words, well, they’re going to lose any benefit. What should you do instead? Yep, think about what you’re thinking about.

So how do you do that? First, decide if you should even be thinking about what you’re thinking about. Is what I’m thinking about edifying? Is it helpful? Does it draw me closer to God or lead me further away? God’s Word says, in Philippians 4:8, “Whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is commendable, if there’s any excellence, if there’s anything worthy of praise, think about those things.”

Second, don’t just think about them. Think about what they really mean. Ruminate on them. Meditate on them. Notice how far beyond just thinking these actions should go, how far beyond good intentions it goes.

Good Intentions vs. Obedience

Many times, we mean to do a lot of good things for God. We intend to do a lot of good things. But what do they say about good intentions? The road to hell is paved with good intentions. In Matthew 7:13-14, Jesus said, “Enter through the narrow gate. For wide is the gate and broad is the road that leads to destruction, and many enter through it. But small is the gate and narrow the road that leads to life, and only a few find it.” The Bible calls that road [of good intentions] a broad road—a highway. It says many find this one that leads to destruction. In other words, it’s easy to find, it’s easy to locate, access, travel on. It’s well marked.

But it’s also well paved, and that’s an intriguing way to think about it. What does that mean? Well, it’s got cheap materials. It’s easily paved at a low cost. It’s comfortable. It’s low maintenance. There’s a lot of on-ramps; there’s a lot of off-ramps. There’s a lot of disobedience on this road. There’s lots of virtue signaling on this highway, lots of good intentions, tons of unfulfilled intentions.

Let me put it another way because I really want you to get this. In Oregon, the Rogue River eventually comes to a place called Hell’s Gate. The water there seems very tranquil, with rock canyons on either side. It’s really beautiful. However, that’s on the surface. Here’s what the locals know: The water below is 150 feet deep, and because the river is channeled into such a small area, it is incredibly powerful.

Many years ago, when filming the John Wayne movie “Rooster Cogburn,” one of the scenes called for a guy to jump from one of the cliffs at Hell’s Gate into this 150-foot-deep pool of water. The stunt man studied the currents and found that about four or five feet below the seemingly tranquil surface of the water, there were actually whirlpools that could have sucked him straight down and killed him. Now, although this stunt man was paid $150,000 for one jump (half a million dollars today), afterward, he said he would never do it again. Remember, Jesus said, “narrow is the [way] that leads to life.”

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Get this: When things get narrow, they get strong and deep and powerful. Now, the highway doesn’t require much other than that we remain upright and have a pulse. No sacrifice, no real taking a stand. No breaking away from the masses (otherwise known as the herd).

But this is problematic because the Lord loves the sacrificial heart that puts others first. But, you know what He loves even more? Obedience. Not lip service. Not virtue signaling. Not your good intentions. Obedience, which is actually doing what God says. Many Christians talk a good game, but I think far fewer step out in obedience to do what God has asked them to do sometimes, commanded them to do.

1 John makes it clear that those who love the Lord prove it one way and one way only: through their obedience. Anything short of obedience means we never moved beyond just thinking about what we’re thinking about. And that’s especially important in light of Proverbs 23:7, which says, “For as a man thinks in his heart, so is he.” This makes it clear that our thoughts direct our words, as I said before, which directs our actions, which will direct our path.

Think about what you’re thinking about. You know why? Eventually, it’s where you’re going. Eventually, it’s who you’re becoming.

Join us on Sunday mornings at The Summit to move you along the path to becoming who God created you to become. Whether in-person or online, 9am or 11am MDT, we hope to see you there!

Until next Thursday, keep thinking about that which is honorable, pure, and praise-worthy!

~Pastor Rob

Aka, P-Ro

The First Three Chapters

Why wait until the book is released to start reading it? With your pre-order, you will receive the first three chapters immediately, so you can begin reading it right away. Pastor Rob sets lays the groundwork for all that he will be sharing, and you will get to start on his end-of-chapter “Change of Heart” exercises.

 

Out of Egypt Devotional

In this 6-day devotional, Pastor Rob will walk you through Scripture, much like the Israelites following God out of Egypt, and show you that God uses the ordinary to do the extraordinary and how to discern the truth over all the noise. You can also join the private Out of Egypt Facebook Group where you can connect with Pastor Rob and others in a supportive and encouraging environment.

 

Social Media First Aid Kit

Every home, office, store, church, and public gathering place has a first aid kit. Something to help patch up those bumps and scrapes we get from time to time. So it seems only appropriate that we treat the bumps and scrapes we sometimes get from social media. In Pastor Rob’s Social Media First Aid Kit, you will find valuable tools to not only treat the wound but to also prevent the wounds from coming in the first place.

 

Included in the kit you’ll find:

  • 5 Bible Verses to Look at Before Engaging Social Media Today – Get the Scriptural foundation you need before checking in with your social media platforms.
  • 3 Decisions to Make TODAY to Protect Your Mental Health When Engaging with Social Media – Having a more positive experience with your social media platforms can be as easy as 1-2-3. These three simple tips, when implemented consistently, will help keep social media in its place…and move you closer to God.
  • The Age of Narcissism – Narcissism, a personality trait that we all possess to a certain degree, has become a major problem. Not just because we’re obsessed with selfies and making sure we look—or at least appear¬¬ to look—good, happy, successful. But because the focus is on self and not God. Take this seven-day journey to putting God—and not you—at the center of your life.

 

Make It the Best Year

Everybody wants this to be the best year of their life—who wouldn’t?! But making this year better than the others means making some adjustments—changes. This 21-day devotional is the jump-start you need to do just that. Filled with scriptures, insight, and encouragement, Pastor Rob walks with you on this daily journey. Don’t wait until next New Year’s Day, make this the best year of your life…starting today!

The First Three Chapters

Why wait until the book is released to start reading it? With your pre-order, you will receive the first three chapters immediately, so you can begin reading it right away. Pastor Rob sets lays the groundwork for all that he will be sharing, and you will get to start on his end-of-chapter “Change of Heart” exercises.

Out of Egypt Devotional

In this 6-day devotional, Pastor Rob will walk you through Scripture, much like the Israelites following God out of Egypt, and show you that God uses the ordinary to do the extraordinary and how to discern the truth over all the noise. You can also join the private Out of Egypt Facebook Group where you can connect with Pastor Rob and others in a supportive and encouraging environment.

Social Media First Aid Kit

Every home, office, store, church, and public gathering place has a first aid kit. Something to help patch up those bumps and scrapes we get from time to time. So it seems only appropriate that we treat the bumps and scrapes we sometimes get from social media. In Pastor Rob’s Social Media First Aid Kit, you will find valuable tools to not only treat the wound but to also prevent the wounds from coming in the first place.

Included in the kit you’ll find:

  • 5 Bible Verses to Look at Before Engaging Social Media Today – Get the Scriptural foundation you need before checking in with your social media platforms.
  • 3 Decisions to Make TODAY to Protect Your Mental Health When Engaging with Social Media – Having a more positive experience with your social media platforms can be as easy as 1-2-3. These three simple tips, when implemented consistently, will help keep social media in its place…and move you closer to God.
  • The Age of Narcissism – Narcissism, a personality trait that we all possess to a certain degree, has become a major problem. Not just because we’re obsessed with selfies and making sure we look—or at least appear¬¬ to look—good, happy, successful. But because the focus is on self and not God. Take this seven-day journey to putting God—and not you—at the center of your life.

 

The First Three Chapters

Why wait until the book is released to start reading it? With your pre-order, you will receive the first three chapters immediately, so you can begin reading it right away. Pastor Rob sets lays the groundwork for all that he will be sharing, and you will get to start on his end-of-chapter “Change of Heart” exercises.

 

Out of Egypt Devotional

In this 6-day devotional, Pastor Rob will walk you through Scripture, much like the Israelites following God out of Egypt, and show you that God uses the ordinary to do the extraordinary and how to discern the truth over all the noise. You can also join the private Out of Egypt Facebook Group where you can connect with Pastor Rob and others in a supportive and encouraging environment.

 

Social Media First Aid Kit

Every home, office, store, church, and public gathering place has a first aid kit. Something to help patch up those bumps and scrapes we get from time to time. So it seems only appropriate that we treat the bumps and scrapes we sometimes get from social media. In Pastor Rob’s Social Media First Aid Kit, you will find valuable tools to not only treat the wound but to also prevent the wounds from coming in the first place.

 

Included in the kit you’ll find:

  • 5 Bible Verses to Look at Before Engaging Social Media Today – Get the Scriptural foundation you need before checking in with your social media platforms.
  • 3 Decisions to Make TODAY to Protect Your Mental Health When Engaging with Social Media – Having a more positive experience with your social media platforms can be as easy as 1-2-3. These three simple tips, when implemented consistently, will help keep social media in its place…and move you closer to God.
  • The Age of Narcissism – Narcissism, a personality trait that we all possess to a certain degree, has become a major problem. Not just because we’re obsessed with selfies and making sure we look—or at least appear¬¬ to look—good, happy, successful. But because the focus is on self and not God. Take this seven-day journey to putting God—and not you—at the center of your life.

 

Make It the Best Year Devotional 

Everybody wants this to be the best year of their life—who wouldn’t?! But making this year better than the others means making some adjustments—changes. This 21-day devotional is the jump-start you need to do just that. Filled with scriptures, insight, and encouragement, Pastor Rob walks with you on this daily journey. Don’t wait until next New Year’s Day, make this the best year of your life…starting today!

 

Exclusive Private Virtual Event – “Narcissism and Breaking Its Hold”

Narcissism is at an all-time high. And it’s not just because we’ve become a society obsessed with how we look and making sure we’re #1. It’s because we’ve put ourselves at the center of our lives instead of God. Join Pastor Rob in this 45-minute private event, where he will discuss the challenges facing society today and how we can make powerful changes in our lives to break the self-centered hold and embrace a God-centered life.

The First Three Chapters 

Why wait until the book is released to start reading it? With your pre-order, you will receive the first three chapters immediately, so you can begin reading it right away. Pastor Rob sets lays the groundwork for all that he will be sharing, and you will get to start on his end-of-chapter “Change of Heart” exercises.

 

Out of Egypt Devotional

In this 6-day devotional, Pastor Rob will walk you through Scripture, much like the Israelites following God out of Egypt, and show you that God uses the ordinary to do the extraordinary and how to discern the truth over all the noise. You can also join the private Out of Egypt Facebook Group where you can connect with Pastor Rob and others in a supportive and encouraging environment.

 

Social Media First Aid Kit

Every home, office, store, church, and public gathering place has a first aid kit. Something to help patch up those bumps and scrapes we get from time to time. So it seems only appropriate that we treat the bumps and scrapes we sometimes get from social media. In Pastor Rob’s Social Media First Aid Kit, you will find valuable tools to not only treat the wound but to also prevent the wounds from coming in the first place.

 

Included in the kit you’ll find:

  • 5 Bible Verses to Look at Before Engaging Social Media Today – Get the Scriptural foundation you need before checking in with your social media platforms.
  • 3 Decisions to Make TODAY to Protect Your Mental Health When Engaging with Social Media – Having a more positive experience with your social media platforms can be as easy as 1-2-3. These three simple tips, when implemented consistently, will help keep social media in its place…and move you closer to God.
  • The Age of Narcissism – Narcissism, a personality trait that we all possess to a certain degree, has become a major problem. Not just because we’re obsessed with selfies and making sure we look—or at least appear¬¬ to look—good, happy, successful. But because the focus is on self and not God. Take this seven-day journey to putting God—and not you—at the center of your life.


Make It the Best Year Devotional

Everybody wants this to be the best year of their life—who wouldn’t?! But making this year better than the others means making some adjustments—changes. This 21-day devotional is the jump-start you need to do just that. Filled with scriptures, insight, and encouragement, Pastor Rob walks with you on this daily journey. Don’t wait until next New Year’s Day, make this the best year of your life…starting today!

 

Exclusive Private Virtual Event – “Narcissism and Breaking Its Hold”

Narcissism is at an all-time high. And it’s not just because we’ve become a society obsessed with how we look and making sure we’re #1. It’s because we’ve put ourselves at the center of our lives instead of God. Join Pastor Rob in this 45-minute private event, where he will discuss the challenges facing society today and how we can make powerful changes in our lives to break the self-centered hold and embrace a God-centered life.

 

Exclusive Live Webinar – “How to Help Your Teen Break Free of Social Media Addiction”

While it might not (yet) be considered a clinical addition, many in society can’t go 5 minutes without checking their phone to see how many likes they have for their latest post, or how many comments people have left. And our teens are especially susceptible. After all, they’ve been all but raised with a device in their hands. How do we help this next generation deal with the debilitating side effects social media can have on us? In this 90-minute webinar, Pastor Rob will discuss the issue and provide practical ways we can help our teens navigate these formative years in a positive way. There will also be a live Q & A session at the end. (A link to the recorded webinar will be provided after the live event.)

Overliked by Rob Singleton is a tome for such a time as this. Even though I work on television, I also make a living through social media. Coincidently, right before I started reading the pre-release copy, I had checked my "Likes'" and numbers on social media! How was I doing? Were my numbers growing? Declining? Did a few drop off?  
 
It's so easy to get our self-esteem and self-worth tied to those likes and numbers.  
 
Through Pastor Rob's book, we learn how frivolous and fake it can all be and ultimately, how it can lead to a miserable and unfulfilled life if left unchecked. The tools, scriptures, and "change of heart" takeaways that Pastor Rob provides at the end of each chapter help considerably shift the focus from there…to in here. He gently, but with statistics and examples, gives us a guide us to live a more authentic life.  
 
In the book, Pastor Rob says, "Honesty is what sets us up for authentic relationships," and isn't that what we really all want? 
 
As a woman over 40 in Hollywood, the expectations have never been higher. Overliked sites that, in one 12-month period, YouTube logged 169 billion views just for beauty-related content. Beauty is good… perfection is lethal. And don't I know it? I am on high-definition TV with glaring set lights, standing next to 20- to 30-year old young women daily; it's a test to stay solid and secure in your own skin.  
 
I was posting perfectly lit and curated pictures of my "Beautiful" (heavily filtered) life; people followed and viewed but scrolled right along. However, when I let down the curtain, turned off the filter, and decided to share my real-life sorrows and struggles with cancer, the comments, words, notes, and numbers flooded. People want to see my honesty and weaknesses because they can relate.  
 
Overliked shows us that when we pretend to be perfect, the only person we are hurting is ourselves.  
 
Pastor Rob's easy and relatable storytelling draws the reader in. We find that our weaknesses become our strengths to help us touch, encourage, and heal others, not just impress them.  
 
Thank you for this very needed and essential book that helps us realize that being real is the only way to have a true connection with our Lord and our friends and family. 
 
In Overliked, through story references of David, we learn the Lord encourages us all to ignore appearance and stature. "For the Lord sees not as man sees: man looks on the outward appearance, but the Lord looks on the heart.” (1 Samuel 16:7)
 
This book is an important message for developing authenticity in our lives, which is far more critical than adding strangers, getting fake followers, and creating a heavily-filtered life experience. I promise you will really "LIKE" it.